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Anger Does Not Go Away When You Ignore It
Anger does not disappear when it is ignored. When expression is blocked, the body carries the activation through tension, pain, and nervous system strain. This article explores where anger is held in the body, how suppression affects physical health, and how somatic approaches support safe release.
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Black baby bird with open beak vocalizing, representing the physical expression of anger and unmet needs in the body.
Learning to Embrace Spontaneity (When Planning Used to Be Survival)
Planning once kept me safe. This reflection explores how hyper-planning becomes a nervous system strategy—and what it looks like to slowly create space for spontaneity, ease, and presence again.
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Meditation and Mindfulness Through a Trauma-Informed Lens
Trauma-informed mindfulness prioritizes choice and nervous system regulation, offering a more supportive alternative to one-size-fits-all meditation practices.
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Soft golden ripples spreading across still water, symbolizing calm, regulation, and gentle movement of the nervous system.
Why Gaslighting Makes You Question Your Goodness
People don’t usually question their goodness out of nowhere. This piece explores how gaslighting slowly shifts self-trust and how doubt takes root.
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The Moment I Noticed My Breath Was Holding More Than I Realized
Breath often reflects stress long before we notice it. This blog explores how breathing patterns reveal what the body is carrying, and how simple conscious breathing practices support the nervous system.
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Trauma-Informed Reiki in Virginia Beach
"I asked if they could change the music, but they just ignored me," a client told me about a previous Reiki experience. "Then they used aromatherapy after I specifically told them certain smells are triggering for me. When I became uncomfortable, the practitioner told me I 'needed to get over what triggered me' and that 'if I loved myself more, I wouldn't be so easily irritated.'"
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A Compassionate Approach to Neural Recalibration
Of course you are exhausted. You are rewiring your brain to embrace possibility after being in survival mode for so long. You're creating new pathways that lead to peace instead of panic, connection instead of isolation, and resilience where there was once only vigilance. This neural recalibration requires tremendous energy, but with compassion as your guide, you can acknowledge how protective patterns once served you while gently encouraging new neural pathways to form. Self-kindness becomes the environment in which healing becomes possible. Discover how compassionate awareness creates the optimal conditions for your nervous system to find balance again.
This image shows an architectural space illuminated by thousands of light points, creating a spectacular radiating pattern. Golden amber lights stretch outward from a central bright area, forming lines that extend through a dark space. The effect resembles neural pathways or energy radiating from a central source, creating a sense of expansion and transformation.
Self-Compassion: Somatic Coach Virginia Beach
Discover simple yet powerful practices that combine gentle touch, mindful breathing, and loving-kindness phrases. These practices offer a way to connect with your body and cultivate self-compassion at your own pace.