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When Anxiety Isn’t Proof Something Is Wrong With You
Anxiety can feel like proof something is wrong with you, especially during prolonged stress or uncertainty. This piece explores anxiety as a response rather than a personal failing and outlines a more compassionate way to understand and work with it.
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How to Protect Your Self-Worth During Difficult Times
Protecting your self-worth during difficult times isn't about staying positive. It's about treating yourself with compassion when life makes that feel impossible. Discover four ways to maintain your sense of worth when circumstances threaten to shake it.
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A Note About Tipping at Healing Arts Center
We don’t accept tips at Healing Arts Center. Here’s why we’ve chosen an approach that removes pressure and guesswork so clients can focus fully on their experience.
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Choosing Your Battles: Peace as an Active ChoiceAnd Learning to Let the Rest Go
Not all conflict deserves your energy. Learn how to choose your battles wisely, set boundaries that protect your peace, and recognize when walking away is the stronger choice. Peace isn't passive—it's an active decision made in small moments every day.
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You Don’t Have to Stay Calm to Help Your Child Regulate
Your child doesn't need you to stay calm during meltdowns. They need you to stay connected. Learn why authenticity matters more than composure.
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Founded on Purpose, Rooted in Community
Mark and Victoria founded Healing Arts Center in Virginia Beach to provide holistic support that honors the mind-body connection. Through art-based coaching and somatic practices, they empower clients to make choices that serve their happiness and cultivate inner peace.
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Shutdown, Silence, and the Nervous System Podcast Talk
This post explores silent panic attacks, nervous system shutdown, and how these states are often misread as avoidance or disengagement. Drawing from somatic perspectives and a recent podcast conversation, it explains how panic can occur without visible distress and why regulation matters before communication.
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Breaking Through Fear to Pursue What Matters
Fear blocks people from pursuing what matters in multiple ways and shows up in different forms. Here are a few patterns I've noticed throughout my 15 plus years as a mindfulness coach - from fear of failure to past disappointments that keep us stuck. Learn practical strategies to break through fear and start living more fully.
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Understanding Somatic Breathwork
Somatic breathwork is a practice centered on intentional control and awareness of your breath to enhance overall wellbeing. Conscious breathing becomes a tool for connecting your body and mind.
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A Different Approach to Stress
A grounded look at how breathwork supports stress and anxiety, with practical techniques that fit real life rather than idealized routines.
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5 Red Flags in a Reiki Practitioner Every Virginia Beach Client Should Know
was once a Reiki client who was taken advantage of by my Reiki practitioner. I know what it's like to trust someone with your healing and have that trust violated. Here are five warning signs to watch for when choosing a Reiki practitioner in Virginia Beach.
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Practical Mindfulness for Stress and Grief
Chronic stress and grief can trap your nervous system in survival mode. Learn how practical mindfulness techniques help you manage stress, process grief, and reconnect with your body in safe, grounded ways. Support available for individuals and military families.
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Working with a Somatic Coach When You're Stuck on Autopilot
Change often happens through small, deliberate shifts rather than dramatic overhauls. By noticing patterns and responding differently in key moments, it becomes possible to move forward without abandoning what already exists.
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Anger Does Not Go Away When You Ignore It
Anger does not disappear when it is ignored. When expression is blocked, the body carries the activation through tension, pain, and nervous system strain. This article explores where anger is held in the body, how suppression affects physical health, and how somatic approaches support safe release.
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What Happens When You Stop Fighting Your Feelings
You know that voice that says "I shouldn't feel this way"? That voice is the problem, not the feeling itself. When you judge your emotions, you intensify the pain and keep yourself stuck. Learn how to stop the cycle and actually help yourself feel better.
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When “Should” Runs the Show
The quiet pressure of “should” shapes how we work, rest, travel, and relate to ourselves. This piece explores where those expectations come from—and how to sort real obligations from imagined ones.
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The Exhaustion You Can't Sleep Off
:You wake up already tired. The demands pile up without relief. Learn to recognize midlife burnout and discover practices that create space for recovery.
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The SoapBox Podcast with Victoria
People leave themselves out of their own decisions. Self-compassion creates room for real choice, especially for those in military and service communities.
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Writing Your Way Through
Writing can interrupt overthinking, reveal patterns, and create space when everything feels stuck. This piece explores journaling, creative writing, and poetry as practical ways to work through what you’re carrying.
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When Your Mind and Body Feel Like Strangers
When the mind and body feel out of sync, stress and anxiety often follow.
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