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Mental Health Advocacy at Healing Arts Center
At Healing Arts Center, we stand as mental health advocates. We encourage therapy while offering creative support through sound, art, movement, writing, and mindfulness. Our goal is to reduce stigma, support veterans and families, and walk beside people on their mental health journey.
Why I Write
Poetry is like cleaning out the junk drawer in my mind—clearing away cobwebs and kicking out the ghosts that rent space in my head. My third published work explores why I write not because I'm good at it, but because it brings me joy.
Sacred Circles and Socrates Event
Join us on September 20, 2025, for Sacred Circles and Socrates—a one-day gathering that blends ancient wisdom with modern reflection.
Why I Chose Somatic Coaching—and Why You Might Too
When I was recovering from narcissistic abuse, somatic practices became a lifeline. What began as a way to calm anxiety and reconnect with my body eventually inspired me to become a somatic coach.
Finding Your Way Through Overwhelm
That heavy feeling when everything feels like too much isn't just about having a long to-do list. Learn gentle approaches to break through overwhelm and find meaning in what you're doing, one task at a time.
Creating Spaces Where You Can Be Human
Healing doesn't happen when you're being managed or fixed or pushed toward someone else's idea of progress. You need space to be where you are—to say 'I'm struggling' without being handed a gratitude journal, to feel angry without being told to find the lesson.
We’re Glad You Found Us
Healing Arts Center in Virginia Beach offers somatic mindfulness coaching, Reiki, meditation, and creative practices like art and writing. Victoria and Mark provide compassionate, client-centered support with a sliding scale for veterans, active duty, and first responders.
Trauma-Informed Reiki Virginia Beach
At Healing Arts Center in Virginia Beach, we offer trauma-informed Reiki that honors your pace, your life experiences, and your comfort.
How I Started Nourishing the Dreams That Once Scared Me
Some dreams take longer to grow. Not because you're doing it wrong, but because they need care, not urgency. This reflection explores what can shift when you stop forcing progress and start tending to your goals with consistency and compassion.
🎧 New Podcast Episode: Permission to Heal
In this honest and grounded conversation, Wendy, Victoria, and Janice explore how somatic practices, Reiki, and compassionate presence support healing—especially for those navigating cancer, caregiving, or overwhelming life changes.
Virginia Beach Reiki Safety: How to Recognize Unethical Practice
Reiki should feel safe. You should leave sessions feeling peaceful, not uncomfortable or violated. Unfortunately, some practitioners cross professional lines. Red flags include inappropriate touching, pushing medical claims, sexual or romantic behavior, and creating emotional dependency.
The Hidden Weight of Keeping Things Smooth
You filtered your needs. You softened your words. You stayed polite to keep the peace — and over time, it wore you down. This piece explores what happens when self-containment becomes a habit, and how the smallest acts of expression can feel like risk.
The Guilt Cycle That's Keeping You Stuck
You set a boundary, feel guilty, and cave. The cycle repeats. This guilt cycle keeps most people trapped in patterns they want to break. The guilt drives you back to old behaviors every time.
The Cost of Being "The Dependable One"
If you're always the one people turn to in crisis, you might be paying a hidden cost.
The Sacred Space Between
The space between letting go and moving forward isn't empty time—it's where real transformation happens.
Being There Without Burning Out: A Guide for Sensitive, Caring Humans
Feeling drained from constantly showing up for others? This post explores how to care without carrying it all—offering practical, trauma-aware insights on boundaries, nervous system regulation, and staying present without burning out.
5 Reasons to Work with a Somatic Coach for Anxiety
Somatic coaching offers practical, body-based tools to support nervous system regulation, reduce reactivity, and help you feel more grounded.
About Victoria
I’m a former teacher turned somatic coach. I help people regulate their nervous systems, move through fear, and feel more grounded in their choices.
What If You Didn't Have to NumbYour Feelings Anymore?
Feeling numb isn't failure—it's your body's wisdom at work.
Alt text: Two people sitting closely, one offering a comforting double-hand hold to the other's hand, symbolizing emotional support, connection, and grounding.
Why We Need to Talk About Toxic Positivity in Energy Work
“Just stay positive” sounds supportive, but for people dealing with trauma, grief, or burnout, it can shut down real healing.