You're still answering the texts, still making the deadlines, still the first call because you always pick up. And you're tired in a way sleep doesn't touch. What high-functioning burnout costs the strong one, and how the pattern starts to change.

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Burdenism is the belief that your needs take up too much space. This post explores where that belief comes from and why asking for help can feel unsafe, even when support is available.

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